I strongly believe that red flags are very common in people. I think that red flags that annoy me are more like pet peeves I have in those people. I think red flags are way easier to point out in people. i think identifying what you don"t like about a person is easier than pin pointing what you do enjoy about them. A big hge red flag that goes off when i am speaking with a person is if i can tell they are speaking the truth. if their story does not seem realistic or reliable then i deem them to be a liar. I genuinely do not like liars in any way shape or form. I do not understand why people feel the need to lie. in all honesty there is never ever a need to lie. lying is wrong in any and all situations.  People who purposely lie knowing it hurts the other party involved genuinely bother my soul.