There are two types of people in this world the ones that think realistically and the one who are optimistic, witch one are you?.Do you choose to think of everything in a realistic way or do you choose to think of things in a optimistic way that you think of things can always be improved and achieve more?.I heard a quote one time I don't know by who or where I heard this but the quote goes like "never think of things realistically it'll destroy your dreams, nobody who's succeeded thought of something in a realistic way". I was talking to this friend from middle school one day and he said " the worst advice someone has ever given me was to be realistic with my goals and dreams" think of it like this your parents sacrificed there lives too raise  you, maybe your the first generation or maybe your 2nd it doesn't matter, they have sacrificed something to get you were you are now do you really think that they want you to be working a 9 to 5 job at a grocery store or at a sad ass company. THE ANWER IS NO they don't want a shitty daughter that they sacrificed there time there money THERE LIVES for now they want you to think outside of the box outside of the pattern that's been for generations.They want you to break the cycle .