I took 3 years of swimming lessons and I still can’t swim ?

Something that I got teased  for a lot was taking swimming lessons and not being able to swim. I started taking swimming lessons a few years back, but it never seemed to work out for me. I like to say that maybe I just wasn’t cut out for swimming because I play soccer, and my bones were strong and not as loose as they needed to be to be able to glide through the water. I can see that that might be an excuse now. I’m not sure what happened to me because I was always so determined to learn how to swim, until I never passed one of the swimming tests. I wanted to learn so badly because I wanted to dive, glide, and go on deep ends of pools without a life vest. I also realized how important of a life skill swimming was. I mean it could save lives and your win. After trying to know how to swim for a while I just decided to give up ?‍??. I was getting tired and didn’t want to spend anymore money on me failing. So, I decided to quit and just continue with soccer. Till this day I still don’t know how to swim. ??