Im a 17 year old girl that has gone through a lot and had to learn things by my self. doesnt matter how old you are because we all go through different things different age. i have learn and seen that we should live life you kwon and work hard in school at lest try. Things that you do do it for yourself dont do it for others or because they tell you and you wanna make them happy no.  number one love yourself  be yourself if your yourself and dont care if others do or dont like you your gonna be happy and proud of yourself. number two focus in school in work to have a better life then what you have right now but have fun. if things get in your way keep going move on dont give up the goals  that you have bring them up so nothing can stop you.