you make think your really close to someone but then all of a sudden they could change on you really fast and talk about you be hind your back , thats why you need to be careful who you surround yourself with and who you tell things to because you dont want to get hurt and lets say you guys stop being friends like you dont want that person going around and saying all of your bussines you know what i mean like yea its sad that people are like that but its a learning lesson to be honest.